An ex-member of the NYSC has given an account of how a male colleague fell in love with her, became obsessed with her and set her up when she rejected his advances. This is in spite of the fact that she made it clear to him that she was married.
According to her, he posted an AI generated image of both of them kissing in camp and posted it on social media. His action resulted in a huge scandal that made the management of the NYSC Suspend her and send her out of the cam grounds.
Her story: “Do you remember that married woman that was sent out of NYSC orientation camp for committing adultery ? I am that woman, and I’m here to tell you my story.
This happened in 2022 in Ishe Omure Local Government, Ekiti State. I was posted to Ekiti State.
In a matter of time, I started making friends. I am this kind of person that’s very outgoing and loves having friends, whether male or female. I have learned my lessons. I met this guy in camp. Anywhere I am, he was there. If I wanted to buy something, he was there paying for me.
I tried a couple of times to tell him, ‘Hey, you know, I’m fine, honey.’ He insisted on buying things. I didn’t see the harm in it. He started opening up to me, telling me about his relationships. His intentions were to get close to me. He would always come to my hostel to just sit outside and talk.
On our side, we’re always sitting together. We’re very close. Because of the kind of things he told me about himself, I had this soft spot for him.
So anytime he wanted to see me, I usually came out of my hostel to see him. One day, he asked me to date him. I politely turned this guy down and told him I’m a married woman. He didn’t take it lightly. He got ∆ngry. ‘If you’re married,’ he said, ‘why don’t you wear your wedding ring?’ He didn’t really believe me.
And so I tried to cut off our communication with him. I stopped talking to him. I stopped being his friend. I stopped picking his calls. Then this guy got so obsessed with me. Everywhere I turned, he was there. That’s when I started realising that this guy was always standing outside my window. My roommates were worried. They weren’t comfortable with him anymore.
So I had to come outside to talk to him, to explain why we couldn’t continue our friendship and why we were talking. This guy hugged me. It came as a shock. I didn’t see it coming. He just hugged me. In the process of me trying to push him away, some other guys came and snapped us.
They took pictures of us and videos of us. He left me, got up and went with them. That’s when I realised that they were friends. I didn’t know what to expect. I was confused at that point. A few hours later, in my hotel, this happened in the night. They sent me a picture of him and me kissing. Conveniently, his face was not showing. He used AI.
While I was still processing what was going on, he sent a video of us kissing. AI videos. You know that once view that WhatsApp does? That’s what he did.
He called me on the phone and said, ‘If I don’t have you, I will send you out of this camp. I give you 10 minutes to meet me outside. I’ll be behind Mami Market.’ Before I could even reply to him, he ended the call. I tried calling my husband that evening, but his number wasn’t going through. So I just said, by morning, I’ll go and report the case to my camp coordinator.
By morning, when I woke up, the first message I got on my phone was a query from my camp coordinator asking me to give a written reply to the allegations that I was caught with someone last night having s*x.
I was shocked. They gave me one hour to reply to this message. I replied, stating everything I knew about this case, and I was invited for a court hearing. There is a court inside the NYSC orientation camp where you have the camp director. He serves as the chairman of the court.
You have the camp commandant. You have security heads. These are like the head of police, the camp director, the platoon leader and, of course, the lawyer who is a corps member like you that’s going to be representing you. He brought the allegations ∆gainst me, and I tried to defend myself as much as I could. They brought in witnesses. Guess who was the witness? This guy.
The lawyer that was assigned to me believed my case, that I was innocent. But they’re still corps members, and she couldn’t really defend me. I was disciplined and sent out of the orientation camp.
That wasn’t the terr!ble part of it. My husband was informed. They didn’t even let me inform him myself.
They called my husband and informed him. My husband called me on the phone and asked me one question. ‘Did you do it?’ And I said no.
And he said, ‘I believe you.’ That was everything I needed to hear. That was what gave me the strength to f!ght my case. My husband took a lawyer. We transferred our case to the Director-General in Abuja, and he reopened the case. After I was disgraced, we got a good tech team that helped us to trace the authenticity of the video.
Immediately they put these videos and pictures in, it showed 98% AI. The NYSC officials apologised to me, and I was asked to continue my service.
The painful part of all of this was the guy that set me up was not punished satisfactorily. They only gave him a one-month extension. Just one month.
The point of this story is: be careful who you receive gifts from, especially married women. Some people can go under rejection. So it’s better not to even get yourself involved with friends of the opposite s*x because most times it doesn’t really end well.
I’m so fortunate that I have a husband that believes in me and trusts me. Otherwise, my case would have been sorry.”_ Married NYSC woman breaks silence on her viral s*x scandal, alleging she was framed with AI-generated photos and videos.
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