The worst thing you can do in Nigeria is make Nigerians hate you. Because once Nigerians turn against you, everywhere you go, they will remind you. Better don’t feign tough skin because they will humble you.
Judy Austin is trending again, and honestly, it is becoming a cause for concern how this woman is coping. She appears to be standing alone as most of her friends appear to have deserted her.
Her videos from court are everywhere. People are calling her husband’s snatcher, dragging her, insulting her, making videos about her and saying all sorts of things. The level of bashing is honestly becoming a lot.
Let me make this clear…. I am not a supporter of Judy, and I have never supported or defended her in anyway, But at some point, can we remember that she is still a human being?
She is not the first woman to be involved with another woman’s husband. We have seen many situations like this, and some of the people involved are still very much around, living their lives and surviving in the internet space..
So why are we still holding this woman to the fire years later?
How much punishment is enough?
She has children. She is a mother. Whatever has happened, she still has to wake up every morning, put herself together and show up for those children.
You can disagree with her. You can condemn what happened. You can have your own opinion about the situation. But please, let’s not forget the human being behind all these viral videos.
Sometimes, forgiveness doesn’t mean you agree with what someone did. It simply means you choose not to keep destroying them over it.
Please, let’s have mercy. Let this woman breathe. Let her live. Let her be a mother to her children without the whole internet constantly bashing her.
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