A woman has sought the help of her social media group admin to pass a passionate message to a lady whom she found to be her lover’s wife.
She wrote in her message that she has been dating the woman’s husband not knowing he was married with children.
Having dated him since her late 20s, she discovered his marital in her 30s and does not know how to restructure her life or start another relationship. She requested to stay on and legally share the man’s affection.
Her message:
‎Dear Madam, ‎I stand here today to apologize. & to also make you understand that, when I met your husband 4 years ago, I was totally unaware he was married. He never mentioned it. ‎All these years I’ve dated him without a clue that, he has a wife and kids.
‎I was 29 when we started; now I’m 33, only to discover he has a wife & 5 kids with you, ma.
‎Please put yourself in my position or – judge me as your biological sister. ‎When you warned me 2 months ago to stay away from him, I had mixed feelings & anger over wasted time. And when i later came to you to explain myself & plead with you, you refused listening to me, instead you send me out of your shop & warned never to see me
‎On several occasions ma, I tried reaching out to you, but you refused talks & blocked me on all networks. ‎Ma’am, I plead with you to reconsider. I promise to respect you– not just as head wife but also as an elder sister. ‎At 33 ma, where & how do I start building another relationship? I’m so sorry that, ‎I couldn’t leave him as you warned ma cuz I’m scared i might not find another husband. I’ve been so attached to him; I love him & at this point, i can’t even imagine my life without him ma
‎Leaving is difficult – switching to another man will be harder. This is why I stayed after he promised to make me second wife. ‎Ma’am, I tried reaching out for woman-to-woman talk, but you refused & blocked me. Ma, I’m really sorry it’s happening like this, sincerely i didn’t plan it either. You’re a woman like me ma, & i do believe your heart isn’t made of stone, pls put yourself in my position. I believe you do have a good heart & understand me
‎I’m from a good home, trained humble & respectful. I promised you no regrets or trouble. ‎Please accept me ma – as I’m already a month pregnant with your husband’s child. This baby needs a father; the child is innocent ma, please I’m begging ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜”
Courtesy: EOB
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