I dated this guy for 2 years and 4 months. He begged me to go visit his mom in his state saying she wanted to see me.
I was skeptical at first but I later obliged after he begged.
When I got there, I joined them to cook that evening. In the morning, the elder sister and younger sister were in the living room, gisting and laughing. I woke up and swept my room then used the opportunity to sweep his mom’s room since it was next to mine. I also swept the living room and the kitchen.
After that, I went to shower and joined them in the living room. I do remote jobs so I went to the dining room with my laptop and phone to start working.
Soon after, the mom came out with a lot of dirty clothes she couldn’t even bring them all out at once she had to go back to pack the rest.
She left them there for over an hour but I focused on my work. She later packed them back inside. Clearly, she was expecting me to wash her clothes while her daughters were busy watching movies.
Throughout that morning, they didn’t cook or even talk about food. Later in the evening, she sent the daughter to get fish for stew. When I tried to join her in the kitchen, she told me to leave the kitchen and I did immediately.
After cooking I joined them at the dining table even though they didn’t call me but I was hungry and I dont know any place there. She ended up dishing my food. After eating, I packed my plate and hers to go wash. Her daughters finished eating after me but they left their plates there and went back to continue watching their movie. I noticed they didn’t speak to me the next morning.
That morning the sister went inside and packed her clothes outside to wash while I was working. She dropped them at the living room and joined the sister that was watching a movie, looking straight at me.
I didn’t say a word I was busy working. Then later in the afternoon I overheard her saying, ‘Is this the lady Emeka was talking good about? That he hasn’t found a wife yet.”
The mom replied, “That’s why I wanted to find a wife for him myself but he is proving stubborn. Look at the type of woman he went to bring. I will make sure he doesn’t marry her.”
I just pretended I didn’t hear them. I was supposed to spend five days with them. The next morning, I woke up very early, showered, and waited for the mom to wake up. As soon as she came out, I told her I was leaving and she just said Okay.
That’s how I came back to Lagos only for this boy to send me a stinker.
Is this how people behave just to keep a man? I’ve never been in such a situation before. Am I the one at fault? I’m not desperate to get married and I can’t do anything to please anyone.
Courtesy: Anonymous
